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Mr.Pagine
11-03-2024, 11:33 AM
It's kind of cathartic for me to write this in this group.

The reason why I love horses, and horse racing was my Dad; and unfortunately he passed on earlier week.

In 1973 we went to Woodbine to watch the Plate as a family; my Mom went to see Queen Elizabeth and my Dad wanted to win some money. My older brother who really had no interest, came along for the hot dog, coke and ice cream sandwich.

My Dad was teaching me to read the DRF, and for some reason I landed on Royal Chocolate. My Dad said the horse had no chance. I liked the name, and for some reason I was big on seeing the horses in the walking ring.

My family told me to run down, see the horses, and run back up; the place was packed. I was simply amazed at how big and beautiful these hoses were.
In 1973 it was so busy that they had 20 windows open on the main floor beside the walking ring (outside).

As every 9yr old kid does, I got in line, and when I got to the window:
Cashier: "How old are you"
Me: "I'm 9"
Cashier: You can't make a bet, you are not old enough
Me: My Dad is sick in the bathroom, I think he has diarrhea, and asked me to put $2 on Royal Chocolate to win.
Cashier: I shouldn't do this, but here you go.

I had my first betting ticket in my hand, and I was over the moon.

I went back to our seats, and 27 minutes later, as my Dad slapped his program on the railing in disgust; I was jumping up and down yelling "I won, I won"

I showed him my ticket, he grabbed me in celebration, and said "How did you do that"

That was the beginning, and having taken him to watch Zenyatta in the BC 2008, and taken him and my brother to watch American Pharoah in the Derby, and we got down to The Spa with this group. All incredible times.

I really tried to get into the BC Friday and yesterday; however, it just wasn't the same, and I ended up turning it off and cleaned my garage. (Having the Classic in the middle was a joke as well. I know it was for TV; however, it sucked)

Love you Dad, and Don't Forget to Cash In Heaven!

57viking
11-03-2024, 12:44 PM
Jon .....Thanks for sharing .Sorry for your loss. Jim

Lt1
11-03-2024, 01:13 PM
Sorry for your loss Jon. Loved the story.
Tim

Mr.Pagine
11-03-2024, 01:43 PM
Much appreciated Jim & Tim.

darmar
11-03-2024, 02:22 PM
Hi Jon
I'm so sorry for your loss and my condolences to your family members as well.
Losing any member of your immediate family is a terrible thing but being able to carry the memory of all the great times you shared with your dad does soften the blow.
Carry on and your dad will share in your successes of your life
Darryl

gandalf380
11-03-2024, 02:53 PM
Very sorry for your loss.

MJS6916
11-03-2024, 04:02 PM
Hello Jon,

Sorry you had to say goodbye to your Dad.

Our condolences to you and your family,

and thank you for sharing your story with us.

Mike

dogkatcher
11-03-2024, 05:33 PM
Heart warming story, my sincere condolences to you and your family.

Mr.Pagine
11-03-2024, 06:41 PM
Thank you very much to all.
XoXo

Ted Craven
11-03-2024, 08:11 PM
Jon, thank you very much for sharing those stories about your Dad. I know he was a strong and lasting influence in your life.

I think I recall meeting him that time when you came up to my town for the Memorial of our mutual friend Alan, the poet? Perhaps also at Saratoga.

You and your family will have many fond memories of him and his life, and every time you bet on a horse or every time one of your horses ends up in the winner's circle, I also bet you carry a little bit of his inspiration with you.

What a legacy. Condolences to you and family - and appreciation for the contributions of your father!

Ted

Mr.Pagine
11-04-2024, 10:48 AM
Thanks Ted, I sincerely appreciate it.

ignacio todoberto bernal
11-04-2024, 04:42 PM
Beautiful story may he rest in peace now.

Ignacio

shoeless
11-05-2024, 02:50 PM
Sorry for your loss condolences to you and your family

My Dad passed away 40 years ago at age 67 and still miss
him.


Jeff

Mr.Pagine
11-05-2024, 09:02 PM
Thank you Ignacio & Jeff

winning
11-06-2024, 01:09 AM
Thank-you for your heartwarming story about you and your dad. God bless you and your family Mr. Pagine, Brian

Mr.Pagine
11-06-2024, 09:19 AM
Thank you Brian.
That was my Dad's name.

CheckMark
11-08-2024, 04:32 PM
Sorry for the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this unfortunate time.

Thanks for sharing the story of him. It touched me because it reminds me of how my dad got me into the game. Well, I also have my late grandfather to thank too, but the both of them introduced me to the game of harness horse racing. Later on, I would be introducing myself to the other side in the thoroughbreds, with self-teaching myself how to read the Form, handicap, and also place a bet.

Those were the days when things were "easy" back then.

Mr.Pagine
11-08-2024, 10:27 PM
Those were the days.
Thank you for the kind words CM.

Jon

dadams6357
11-09-2024, 05:44 PM
Sorry for your loss.
Stories like this, is what makes life worth living.
don

Mr.Pagine
11-11-2024, 08:34 PM
Thanks Don.
Have a great night!!